But my absolute FAVORITE part of the preschool experience has nothing to do with little Callie. It's about her mommy. And the friends that I make at preschool, and the relationships that I have built while standing in the pick up line, and the lovely play dates that I get to host. All because Callie went to preschool... and made her mommy some friends.
This year, as we ventured out on the first field trip, a fitting pumpkin patch for fall, I couldn't help but dwell on the strides that both Callie, and I, have made from pumpkin patch 2009 to pumpkin patch 2010.
Last year, I clung to my freezing 3 year old, giving her the unknown responsibility of making me look needed, so as to not look alone amongst a sea of unfamiliar faces. I would try to shoot out nice looking "Hey, I'll be your friend" smiles.. but no one seemed to pick them up, so I busied myself with fixing her hair, helping her pumpkin pick, ect. As we drove back to the school, my passenger seat empty due to my bailing co-chaperon, I distinctly remember wondering whether or not I would ever make friends in this too-small, unfriendly, city of a home.
Enter fieldtripping 2010. With one year of school under my belt (and Callie's), we both felt so much better equipped to handle a day out with friends and pumpkins. There was sunshine, there was pre-gaming coffee with four, yes FOUR friendly faces that I not only enjoy, but who have 4 lovely children who Callie adores too. There were pictures where people wanted me to be in, and take of them. And I'm pretty sure that when I threw out my "Hey let's be friends" smile... it was expected, because we were already friends to begin with. And this time as I drove home, after driving with not only my mom, but a close chaperoning friend, I drove myself right over to a friends house, where the girls played, we ate, and I became thankful for the joys of school.
All in all, I love preschool. I think I am learning just as much about relationships and God's provisions for us as Callie is learning about the letter "G" and the number "3". So if you find yourself in a place that's not home, in a city without friends, maybe you should try finding a preschool nearby. There are sure to be some amazing women who would love to set up a play date. In my opinion, it's never too late to go back to school.
Here are some pictures from 2009 to 2010
Callie and friend Makenna |
MY friend Jamie and her too cute Madison |
Picking pumpkins (It was super windy) |
The Year difference: Pumpkin Patch 2009 |
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